Healing the the Sources
of Obesity and Substance Abuse
In my experience, the
need to protect the physical body from a previous experience of pain,
starvation, sexual abuse, or violence is a cause of obesity that often
originates in past lives and that can thus be ameliorated by past life
regression. - Dr. Brian Weiss
Some people think that
they can use obesity as a kind of magical protection against certain types of
wasting illnesses. For example, people who are afraid of cancer often put on
weight because they think that being heavy means that they are healthy.
Others feel that added
weight provides an insulating layer between the self and the body, dulling
awareness of any perceived danger (real or imagined) and appearing to protect
the heavy person from the "hard knocks" of the world.
When sexual abuse is the
cause of the obesity, past life therapy can successfully treat both the symptom
and the cause, the cause being as severe psychologically as the physical burden
the symptom places on the body. The whole person is treated. There is no need to
regain the weight, to repeat the process again and again. The causative trauma
is no longer hidden. Simultaneously, both the inner and outer selves are
healed.
For some patients,
regression to childhood in the present lifetime can be enough to cure chronic
and health-threatening obesity. I
interviewed patients suffering from severe obesity preliminary to their
entering a research program that involved an invasive procedure to promote
weight loss.
When the real reason for
obesity can be uncovered by regression to the source, whether to childhood in
this lifetime or to past life sources, the excess weight seems to simply drop
off. Most of my regression patients have been able to resist any significant
subsequent weight gain. If a patient does start to gain weight again, a session
in which the memory is reexperienced or reviewed is often enough to reverse
this trend.
This method also works
for patients who have inherited tendencies toward obesity. These days, much
attention is being given to the possibility that some of us may inherit certain
genes that predispose us toward becoming chronically overweight. While such a
genetic inheritance may indeed exist, it is important to remember that a
tendency is just a tendency—it is not a certainty.
Past life regression
gives patients the strength and also the tools to overcome any sort of
tendency. Tendencies are not inevitable, irresistible, or irreversible. With
past life regression and the subsequent understanding, a physical tendency can
be reversed just as easily as possible.Perhaps knowledge of the source of this
cure is already deeply embedded within us. Whenever I ask an obese person how
long he or she has been overweight, the answer is usually "forever."
Substance abusers are
also often deeply aware of the "foreverness" of their problem.
Sometimes the tendency toward substance abuse itself is one that has been
carried over from previous lifetimes. Or, the problems that a person hopes can
be masked by using alcohol or drugs may be the issues that have been carried
over from another lifetime, giving the feeling of timelessness and eternity.
In either case, patients
facing the challenge of recovery often have an underlying need in common with
the obese. And that need is the need to protect. Like excess weight, drugs and
alcohol can seem to provide a layer between the person and his or her feelings,
fears, and the hurts inflicted by others. Drugs can also insulate an addict from
taking responsibility for his or her life because the addict can always blame
the drugs or alcohol for problems. It is easy to use addiction as an excuse for
failures, disappointments, or mistakes instead of accepting such setbacks
realistically and using them as opportunities for growth.
In contrast to obesity,
the motivation for substance abuse behavior often involves an element of
escapism or avoidance. Substance abuse typically provides a method of
suppressing memories or feelings.
In this sense, the
dulling of awareness with drugs and alcohol can be a form of slow suicide. Like
suicide, substance abuse is a way of avoiding or escaping intolerable issues.
Substance abusers who undergo past life regression therapy sometimes discover
that they have committed suicide in other lives and that the issues they wanted
to escape from previously have resurfaced with a vengeance. This time the need
to escape has been translated into the slower suicide and escapism of
addiction.
In some cases, the
opportunities for growth in a past lifetime were "wasted" when
painful issues could not be confronted. Perhaps in that previous lifetime,
significant issues were avoided through the veil of altered states induced by
alcohol or drugs. Although the issues might now be different, the temptation to
use the same "escape hatch" to avoid pain may have recurred.
Either way, the only way
to get rid of both the core issue and the trap of substance abuse is to meet
them both head-on and solve them in a spiritual and realistic manner. Once
acute intervention is accomplished, past life therapy can treat the underlying
causes of addiction, which may have roots in challenging family relationships
and/or prior childhood abuse. For some patients, the core issue may revolve
around a theme of anger or violence, since the expression of these qualities is
facilitated by alcohol and drug use. For others, core issues may involve
problems in courage or self-love. Alcohol can provide a pseudo-confidence.
I rarely treat patients
who are in the acute stage of an addiction to alcohol or drugs. Hypnosis is not
effective when a person is under the influence of these substances. In this
acute stage, a substance abuser should seek help from an inpatient intervention
program or from a support group such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics
Anonymous (NA). Those who come to my office have usually completed the
detoxification process and are interested in healing core issues in their
lives. Often, they have come to recognize that substance abuse is a symptom
that has blotted out or provided escape from painful life traumas. These
patients frequently recognize that their substance abuse was much more painful
than the original traumatic event. Inner child work and past life regression
therapy provide a method for releasing both the primal pain and the maladaptive
behavior. From the perspective of the inner child, harmful habits seem worth
the price of alleviating such enormous pain. But from the adult perspective,
the pain can be made to appear manageable. It can be released, and with it the
need for dulling, desensitizing, and protective habits is also released. Recovering
addicts can make excellent candidates for past life therapy, because the
problem of alcoholism or substance abuse is so often at the heart of a
spiritual path. The reward for overcoming substance abuse is a precious one.
The process may provide an accelerated path of spiritual growth. It is through
understanding, faith, and wisdom that alcoholism and drug abuse are overcome.
I have found that the
experience of regression therapy can be supportive of the Alcoholics Anonymou s
Twelve-Step recovery process. For your information, here are the Twelv e Steps
of the AA program:- Dr. Brian Weiss
Step One: We admitted we
were powerless over alcohol, that our lives had become unmanageable
.
Step Two: Came to
believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Step Three: Made a
decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we
understood him
.
Step Four: Made a
searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves
.
Step Five: Admitted to
God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Step Six: Were entirely
ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
Step Seven: Humbly asked
Him to remove our shortcomings.
Step Eight: Made a list
of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
Step Nine: Made direct
amends to such people whenever possible, except when to do so would injure
them or others.
Step Ten: Continued to
take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
Step Eleven: Sought
through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we
understood him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to
carry that out.
Step Twelve: Having had
a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this
message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Many of the issues
addressed in past life therapy correspond to these Twelve Steps. Th e basis of
both is spirituality. Both recognize the primacy of a higher power or plan.
This does not imply a formal religious context. Th e power can be discovered
within.
Spirituality is a
vitally important force. Lives change because of it. Values change. People
become less violent, greedy, selfcentered. They become less afraid. Having had
these experiences, they tell others, who in turn carry the same message to many
more. Ultimately, in both obesity and substance abuse and really in any form of
suffering, the mechanism of healing involves the process of getting rid of
fear.
The core healing
mechanism of past life regression therapy is the transmutation of fear into
love. This is the message of healing that those who have experienced past life
regression carry to others and, hopefully, practice in all their affairs. How
do you do it? By knowing yourself. By looking within and seeing clearly. By
understanding and acquiring wisdom. By becoming more joyful and peaceful. This
is the essence of any past life healing.
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